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Summer love!

We’re not even to the halfway point of the summer, but I’m pretty sure our house isn’t the only one already getting some of the dreaded cries of  “mommy, I’m bored!”  I’ve been compiling little bits and pieces of fun over the years and have collected some of my favorites here to share with you!

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Family Fun Magazine: Summer 2010

Texas Day Trips

FW Child: 181 Things to do & see

NY Times Ideas for fun & educational activities

Cool Summer Crafts

DFW Family Events

Martha Stewart Summer Crafts

If you’ve got some great summer tips to share, please pass them on! I know I’m always on the lookout for the next great idea!

Contrary Mary

I *puffy heart* this commercial from Target.. every time it comes on I catch my breath and take a minute.  Such a simple concept, but so heartbreakingly true.  On Monday Mary likes yellow.. by Tuesday it is green. And so it goes… kids are so passionate for just a split second.. about baby dolls, than barbies.. tow trucks, then legos.. and you just never know when their minds are changing until it’s too late and they are already gone.   I can’t tell you how many of my girls’ little games and favorite toys that I would love to have captured, but always put it off… for another day when I had more time, after I got them the right outfit to wear in the pictures, a little bit sunnier, a little bit cooler, when their bangs have grown out or their teeth have come in… and then, just as quickly, that moment was gone.

Clients ask me all the time, what’s the best time to have portraits made? What age? What time of year? What time of day? My answer is always the same.

Right now.

A week from now, a month from now, even a few days from now, your kids will not be the same people they are in this very minute. With each new dawn, they are becoming new, more interesting people than you ever thought possible, bigger and brighter glimpses of the amazing adults they will someday be, shaped by all their funny little quirks and silly childish moods they experienced along the way.  And what better record of childhood could you get… not just the curl of their pigtails or the number of freckles on their nose, but little bits and pieces of the tiny people they used to be, if only for a day.

Happy Earth Day!

Just a quick post to brighten a cloudy Earth Day….

First, some fun craft and game ideas you can do with the kids to celebrate the planet today… you probably already have many of the supplies on hand right now!

Family Fun Recycled Crafts

And here’s another site with lots of great activities, crafts, games, and ways you can get the kids involved in keeping things nice and green for their children too!

Kaboose Earth Day 2010

A picture is worth a thousand words…

I want to hear some of yours! It’s our new blog contest.. add a caption to this photo, as funny or creative as possible!  Go as out of the box as you want, I want to hear them all!  We’ll take submissions until next Tuesday at midnight, and the winner gets their choice of a $25 starbucks gift card or $50 gift certificate for photos with me!   Have fun with it, and we’ll do this again soon!  You can leave your caption in the comments below, on facebook, or in an email to me, ann@annbeckphotography.com.  Thanks for playing!

Top 10 in 2010: My Favorite Organization Tips & Tricks

It’s a fun new feature we’re adding this year.. monthly top ten lists.. all completely random and unrelated.. just fun!

This month we’ve got my top 10 favorite organization tips! I have always had a soft spot in my heart for office supplies, rubbermaid buckets, file cabinets, label makers… anything you can use to sort, stack, categorize and organize.  Don’t get me wrong, my house is NOT by any means spotless, I have dishes in the sink and a never ending pile of dirty laundry waiting for me, but I do have a few tricks I’ve learned over the years to make things run as smoothly as possible.. and I am always happy to share!  Some of these I have shared before and nearly all of them are collected from magazines, websites, and fellow moms, so feel free to pass them along and let me know if you have a trick of your own to pass on!

1. Mobile to-do list. I *puffy heart* this file folder. You can use any kind of accordion folder, but the patterns on these are just to die for! I have the dividers labeled according to the categories in my todo list.. reply (notes from school, people to call, etc), bills, food (recipes, coupons, grocery lists), shopping (receipts to return, gift cards, store ads, birthday invites I need to buy gifts for), things to file, and supplies (checkbook, pen, envelopes, stamps, thank you cards, etc).  I file papers into the holder as soon as I get them, and carry the file with me all the time. Sitting in carpool, waiting at the dr office, or on the kitchen counter while the kids do homework.  Everything is right there, and I can knock out my list a little at a time with whatever time I had. I finally accepted that I was never going to have a nice long chunk every day to tackle this stuff, but in bite-sized morsels it can be done!

2. Tame the inbox. Email clutter is the worst! Put your inbox on a diet for the next month to cut down on a lot of the unnecessary clutter.  Next time you get a newsletter you don’t remember signing up for or never seem to read, take a second to click the unsubscribe button. Same with spam emails.. instead of just deleting, mark each offender as spam with your email’s filters, to keep them from coming in again. Slowly but surely, you’ll get less and less of the junk you don’t want!

3. Over the door shoe holders. These might be my favorite kid room tool.. they work so well for so many things! Hung on the back of the bedroom or closet doors, these are the perfect holders to store small stuffed animals (webkinz, anyone?) and  little plastic toys (little pet shop, barbies, ponies, race cars, you name it!) and all of the tiny accessories that go with them.  In my older daughter’s room, we use these for socks, scarves, leg warmers (did you know those are back in style?), jewelry, and all the random little accessories a tween needs. It’s important to get the clear plastic ones, so kiddos can see what’s inside, both for finding things to play with and for putting them away.  And yes, the best part.. these make it so easy for kids to put away their toys BY THEMSELVES! Hooray!

4. Color coded towels.  Simple, yes.. but we switched to color coded (and monogrammed!) towels about a year ago and never looked back.  No more questioning who left theirs on the floor, or which bathroom to put them away in. Everyone has a designated hook and is responsible for hanging up their own towel after baths, or they won’t have one for the next time! (Yes, I’ve actually enforced that.. but I only had to do it once!) Seriously cut down on towel laundry and overall bath time chaos.

5. Homework Box. While we have a closet dedicated to art supplies, and junk drawers with pens and scissors, we have one small handled bucket (like a shower caddy) that we keep in the kitchen specifically for homework. There is nothing more frustrating than sitting down to do an assignment to find we are out of glue sticks, or the scissors have been lost to the most recent fort-building adventure in the backyard. For that reason, we have one bucket with pens, pencils, sharpeners, crayons, colored pencils, etc.. everything you might need for homework, and it is ONLY to be used for schoolwork. It also helps eliminate the wasted time searching for all the supplies when time is already so short in the afternoons!

6. Designated Plates/Cups. One of my biggest peeves was the ridiculous amount of dishes my kids will go through each day.. a new cup each time they want a drink, bowls and plates every meal so food doesn’t touch, and so on. This tip was given to me by a mom of six and -no lie- changed my life almost immediately. Each girl has their own plate/cup/bowl set (we let them pick out a cute set at Target, but you could do color coded solid plates too) and that is what they use for every meal. Again, makes it easy to see who forgot to clear their place, and they have a cute little scrubbing sponge to clean the dishes after each meal, so they can sit in the dish dryer by the sink until the next. We have honestly cut our dishes by more than half, and everyone has become so much more responsible in cleaning up! (shocker.. they think it’s fun! LOL)

7. Organize your Family Photos! Digital cameras make it soo easy to take a ton of pictures.. but so hard to keep track of them all! I’ve found it works best to nip this dragon in the bud before it becomes a bigger issue by creating designated folders the second you download images off your camera.  Start with one “Family Pictures” folder, and then within that create a folder for EACH event, and be sure and label it with the subject and date, such as “Emily’s Birthday Party, Sept 09″ to make it easier to find your pictures when it comes time to print them.  Speaking of, make a regular date with yourself, ideally every few months, to take the time to upload your pictures to a lab and have them printed.  Most sites (such as walmart.com, costco.com, etc) will upload the entire folder, so you don’t have to sort through which images to use, and you can even keep the folder there as a backup, should something happen to your own computer and all your own files get lost, a fear I know many of you share with me!!

8. Clear your bookshelves. Any kind of decluttering can go a long way to keeping your home organized and feeling more in control. Books are a super easy item to get overwhelmed with, but also just as easy to tame! Take an afternoon to sort through all the books and clear out anything you know you won’t read again.. you can take them to Goodwill or a local library, or trade them in at Half Price Books and get something new! You can also look into an account with a book sharing service, such as Paperback Swap.  It’s a fabulous concept.. you list the books you have available to trade, and someone else can request it. You pay the shipping costs to send it to them, but you also get a credit towards a book for yourself. Use that credit to choose a book from others’ listings, and they’ll ship it to you.  As long as you keep sending books out, you can keep receiving them! A great, inexpensive way to recycle knowledge!

9. Help your Kids Help Themselves.  Kids WANT to clean their own rooms. No, really. They do. However most rooms are organized by adults, how adults think, in containers and layouts that are convenient for adults.  Send the kids away for the day and look at your kids’ rooms through their eyes, find little ways you can rearrange things to be easier for them.  Lower shelves, buckets labeled with big words or pictures so they know where to find things, easy to open hamper and shoe containers, etc.  A few small changes can make a big difference, and the next time you ask your kids to help pick up, it will be faster and easier for everyone… and more fun!

10. Just Say No.  Nancy Reagan knew what she was talking about… no is a powerful word! Keep clutter and chaos at bay by refusing to allow it into your home! Get on every do not call and spam mail list you can find to keep unwanted junk out.  Don’t overschedule yourself so much that you don’t have time to think, let alone keep up with paperwork! Don’t take on too many projects at once, no matter how fun they sound! Keep a box in your desk or room for “someday” projects.. the quilt of baby clothes, the heirloom genealogy scrapbook, the home decorating ideas you’ve pulled from magazines.  Keep them handy, so when you get some alone time or feel like using your creative juices, you still have the ideas close.  But don’t let them clutter your space, making you feel guilty or overwhelmed.  You WILL have time eventually.. but it’s okay to not have time now! Right now every single second with your kiddos is precious, you don’t want to waste it drowning in paper clutter!

One little word

Last year I was inspired by this blog to replace the old system of a bunch of new years resolutions (that no one ever keeps!) with one word to represent your hopes & aspirations for the year.  One word to keep in your heart all year long, to guide you in tough times  and keep you focused on your goals when things get crazy… one word that will motivate you to be the YOU that you’ve always imagined.

It’s a lot of pressure for one little word, right? But at the same time, how perfect? If your list had been filled with reminders to stop overcommiting yourself and pay attention to the little things and declutter your house.. your word can be simplify. If your goals for the year involve settling a crazy schedule and helping your family work together more peacefully, your word can by harmony. If you hope to spend 2010 getting in shape and active and staying on the ball, you want energize. And so on… but what better way to start the year than in the most pure and simple of goals. Much easier to remember all year long, and easier to apply to your daily life.

My word this year is actually two.. defying gravity… taken from my favorite song, whose lyrics include this line.. It’s time to trust my instincts, close my eyes: and leap! That for some reason really spoke to me this year.. that’s exactly what I am hoping to do, on both a business and personal level.. take some chances and reach that next level.. defy gravity! I even had a bracelet made to remind me every day.. and even if my feet are still stuck on the ground, my brain is always looking for ways to leap!

I’d love for all of you to join me.. choose a word.. post it here or keep it to yourself.. but make this the year you really make a change.. one word at a time!

Quick picture to close today’s rambling post.. because this is still technically a photography blog! :)

I am thankful for patience

From my clients, who have been experiencing the slowdown that comes each year at this time.. proofs show a little later.. prints come at the late end of the estimate.. and especially emails and phone calls are not returned as quickly as I would like. I am doing my best, I promise!

I am also thankful for the patience I so desperately need to remember to enjoy the days with my darling girls, who often get the same response delays this time of year.. especially when we have a week like this, with the perfect weather for afternoons at the park.  I can’t always make it there but for the times when I remember how much it means to them, and how much I will appreciate it after the fact too!, I am thankful.  This can be such a stressful time of year for everyone, but with a little patience and peace we can keep the focus on the really important things.

Hope you find a moment to exercise some patience in your life today, whetehr with your friends, work, or your little ones.  We could all use a little more peace in our hearts!

Finally, here’s a photo of some kiddos whose mom has more patience than I could ever dream of… and I love & admire her for it!!

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Need a smile?

Let the five year old walk around with a point & shoot camera for a day and download the evidence….

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Baby brother joins the fun

This is the family who inspired the “watch them grow” game last week.. I returned to their house last month after almost five years to see this darling girl all grown up (but with the same laugh!) and meet her absolutely enchanting baby brother!

The last month of blog posts has been very wordy and light on the pictures, so I’ll save you my sappy poetic waxing about how touching it is for me to watch a family grow, how I think of all of these little ones as my own children, and how excited I was to see this family again and find them to be just as gracious and fun as the last time. Nope, none of that… just the pictures! :)

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Porkapaloosa 2009

Three girls home from school, all closed for health concerns had me at my wits end.  What’s a mom to do with a bonus spring break, less than a month before school is out for the summer?  Throw a swine flu party, of course!

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After coating the house in a lovely shade of pepto-bismol pink, we assembled a not-too-small group of our bestest friends for an all-out hoedown (or should that be HOGdown?) and let the giggling piggies take over.  We bedazzled air masks and colored our specially made t-shirts, munched on pigs in a blanket and hot dogs and pork and beans.. anything we could think of that fit the theme!

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We decorated pig cookies (NOT a pork product, thank goodness!) and rented Charlottes Web and Babe, though I think the girls had more fun playing video games (correction: the Wii Wee Wee!) and with the balloons (never quite got that game to fit with a pun, but they were pink so it worked!).

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In all, it was an incredibly fun day… though I won’t deny a few *squeals* of joy from the moms when we found out school was back in session today!

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